Standing above....
Another week!!
A friend visited us because of Stef's birthday of last week.
She wanted to give him a hugg. Oh my dear!!
You should have seen that: a near 50 year old trying to hugg a hesitant, red coloring, 19 year old that is about half a meter longer. LOL!
He was glad with the present: an envelope with money. So I expect him to go to the movie or buy a book or CD.
The weather was cold but sunny, so Lars and Thami went skateboarding. And Nyo was with Jim.
So finally we had some time to talk about some matters.
In the meantime the girls were playing and eating the sweets she brought.
Almost an idilic picture, if it weren't that my thought were circling around the posibility of Childcare barging in.
After my friend left, the girls wanted to go and play with a friend, so it was rather quiet at home.
Time to work on the laundry, and sort out some stuff.
In the meantime I was thinking about an article I wanted to write about how the government handles childabuse.
And about the fact that innocent people's lives are broken because of false accusations.
People say that those people have to accept that innocent people ghave to suffer, because it's for a good cause. If every accusation is taken serious there's the highest chance of getting childabusers in jail.
Well, maybe work on a better system, because false accusations are very disruptive for a family and very traumatic too.
Wrote that in a comment on a site, and it got the dogs loose.
Well, I assume those are all people who have never dealt with false accusations, and especially never have dealt with police interrogations on that subject.
I wish I could shed off all those feelings.
I have dealt with so much in my life.
But even the death of my two babies didn't hurt so much.
I still miss them, but the feelings I have about those false accusations and everything that happened then are so much more painfull.
Maybe because it's about me as a person.
I'm honest, I stand up for my kids, and I certainly don't abuse them.
It hurts when people think they know better and judge you upon their preconceptions.
No defense possible.
And now we're dealing with accusations like that again, and it makes me so very angry that people even consider thinking that!!!
And I'm angry at myself because I can't stand above it, and I just don't know how to handle those people who think they have a morale that is far higher than mine.
